Why Skipping Secret Santa At The Office Might Be A Good Idea
BERLIN, GERMANY - DECEMBER 17: An actor dressed as Santa Claus pretends to retrieve a lost package near the top of the Kollhoff Tower on December 17, 2017 in Berlin, Germany. The premise of the short theatrical performance is that Santa, while passing overhead in his flying sleigh, loses a package that gets snagged near the Panorama cafe on the 24th floor of the tower, and he has to stop and try to retrieve it. After succeeding he then abseils down the face of the tower to greet visitors below at Potsdamer Platz. (Photo by Carsten Koall/Getty Images)
This year, we’re throwing an office holiday party the week before Christmas. I’ll be completely honest – the party is happening right now and I’m in my studio writing this article instead of socializing with my coworkers! I did have some food and drink, so that was cool. But they just did their Secret Santa gift exchange. I did not participate. Here’s why skipping the Secret Santa at your office Holiday party might be a good idea.
Here’s the thing. I like to give gifts to people. I thoroughly enjoy it. Except that when I give, I think long and hard about what the person may want and even try to surprise them with something they didn’t expect. Now, there’s nothing wrong with the Secret Santa, but what happens when you get that coworker or even supervisor whom you don’t know all that well? What then?
It’s a little tough to shop for someone who you have minimal conversations with or see much less often than your daily coworkers. Besides that, there’s always a spending amount – a $25 dollar gift seems to be pretty standard. So hear me out. I go and buy a bottle of $25 wine for a coworker and then when it comes to open my present, it just so happens to be a $25 gift card to Starbucks. So really………didn’t I just buy myself a Starbucks gift card?
And the funny part about that example is that I don’t drink coffee!!! Now don’t get me wrong. Some people are great and giving Secret Santa gifts and come up with some cool and unique items. I’m just not one of those people. To spare myself the embarrassment of giving an unwanted gift in front of everyone, I usually sit this out.
I prefer to grab some food. Have a chat with a close colleague and sip a good adult beverage. Then I beeline it back to my studio and get some work done. I’m not a Scrooge……I’m just way too anxious about all of this to enjoy myself! So at least for me, skipping the Secret Santa at the office Holiday Party is a good idea.
10 Unforgettable Christmas Experience Gifts
Physical gifts can be cool for a moment, but the memories they create are what truly last a lifetime. This holiday season, why not do your friends and family a favor by skipping the usual physical presents? Maybe consider giving a unique Christmas experience instead?
An experiential gift is just as thoughtful as something you can hold in your hand. The difference is that it won’t end up gathering dust, getting re-gifted, or donated. That’s because experiences, whether it’s a subscription, an activity, or a class, let people give people memories. Whether the giftee does it on their own, with their family, or even with you, it offers opportunities for learning and exploration.
The possibilities are limitless with Christmas experience gifts.
If you’re searching for an exciting experience for adults or children, ther are lots of choices. You could start with something as simple as covering the dinner tab for a couple. Another option is going big by planning a fantastic trip as the ultimate gift for your spouse. For kids and teens, they can dive into fun activities. These can be learning to play an instrument or mastering the art of making their favorite dessert.
Another advantage of opting for experiential gifts is that they make ideal last-minute presents. They can be conveniently purchased online. And if all else fails, a gift card is always an option.
Let’s face it: most of the stuff we buy just because we like it or think we need it tends to fade into the background pretty quickly. This is especially true when they’re given as gifts. We’ve all had those times when we eagerly tore into a physical gift at Christmas or a birthday, only to realize it didn’t quite live up to the hype. It’s even worse when you know that time and money were spent on something you’re not too thrilled about.
Experiences can enrich our lives, contributing to personal growth and opening our minds to new horizons. Meanwhile, dust collectors, especially the ones from distant relatives, don’t quite measure up. You know that feeling, right? It’s like saying, “Thanks, Aunt Rose, but I could’ve done without that Christmas scarf and hand lotion from the buy-one-get-one special at the mall.”
So, when the holiday season or other celebrations roll around, and you’re stuck with gift-buying, consider giving experiences instead of physical items. To help you get started, here are some experiential gifts that would make great Christmas gifts.
Mike is all about having fun each afternoon. He brings you concert tickets, some fun trivia, and of course the best bands. Other interests outside of being at WDHA are drums, movies, and my family. Also, like most radio personalities, he loves live music. There's nothing like a live show to hype him up! His all-time favorite band is Metallica. But according to him, the list of others is pretty lengthy.